tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14910508.post112753602816311670..comments2023-10-24T03:55:21.719-04:00Comments on ...unhinged...: Midnight Ramblings.....Princess Pessimismhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18078119025887922397noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14910508.post-1127784844162924892005-09-26T21:34:00.000-04:002005-09-26T21:34:00.000-04:00Hernesto, If you're going on who said "where's her...Hernesto, <BR/><BR/>If you're going on who said "where's hernesto" then yes, someone DOES miss you, but it is certainly not me...it is yrautca...<BR/>Go bug himPrincess Pessimismhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18078119025887922397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14910508.post-1127752584055924582005-09-26T12:36:00.000-04:002005-09-26T12:36:00.000-04:00Hernesto.LOL...I wouldnt exactly say that I MISSED...Hernesto.<BR/><BR/>LOL...I wouldnt exactly say that I MISSED you....Princess Pessimismhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18078119025887922397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14910508.post-1127614543437501932005-09-24T22:15:00.000-04:002005-09-24T22:15:00.000-04:00Hmm, nice post. To thine own self be true? We ar...Hmm, nice post. To thine own self be true? We are all here for such a short time, finding anyone is nice whether it is right or wrong. We all tend to drift and then run into someone and just try to never leave. Sometimes good, sometimes not so good. We all bring the things we want into a relationship, but there is no telling if the other person will want it.kybrunohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04272649572530681719noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14910508.post-1127605680421696742005-09-24T19:48:00.000-04:002005-09-24T19:48:00.000-04:00Yrautca....LOL...No I dont like anyone better than...Yrautca....LOL...No I dont like anyone better than anyone. I'm just really glad she posted, what she said really made a lot of sense to me, on a personal level.<BR/><BR/>Dont worry though, you know i still adore you.<BR/><BR/>And I have NO clue where hernesto is....maybe he got the hint.Princess Pessimismhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18078119025887922397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14910508.post-1127600188209838742005-09-24T18:16:00.000-04:002005-09-24T18:16:00.000-04:00So you like Clarissa better than me. Is that it?Wh...So you like Clarissa better than me. Is that it?<BR/><BR/>Where's our perverted friend hernesto. Got his balls cut off?yrautcahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12727447528292136673noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14910508.post-1127594056507003132005-09-24T16:34:00.000-04:002005-09-24T16:34:00.000-04:00I know that you are all saying pretty much the sam...I know that you are all saying pretty much the same thing, and I agree....Happiness shouldnt be measured by the other person, but isnt it a lovely idea, that you get a rule book when you decide to settle down? <BR/><BR/>Everyone's comments are 100% accurate...and everyone SEEMS to be in mutual agreement of what needs to be done, but isnt it funny how it never really turns out that way in real life?<BR/><BR/>Clarissa....you have no idea how accurate your comment was....thanks for posting. It's good to see you out here....Princess Pessimismhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18078119025887922397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14910508.post-1127587391942466662005-09-24T14:43:00.000-04:002005-09-24T14:43:00.000-04:00Wow Princess, you said a lot in there. If have ins...Wow Princess, you said a lot in there. If have insurance, call my office and set up an appointment. Seriously, there is no way to adequately answer all your thoughts in a blog comment. I think each of us has to find our own way in the relationship world, but there are certain things that are never OK. You should NEVER stop being 100% yourself to make another person happy. If you give up even a little of yourself to make the relationship work, then one of you isn't in love with the other. Ok, sorry, couldn't stop myself. By the way, did you already know that Depeche Mode is coming to Toronto?Philhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09410795209306696264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14910508.post-1127576519131905722005-09-24T11:41:00.000-04:002005-09-24T11:41:00.000-04:00I don't think relationships should be hard, and if...I don't think relationships should be hard, and if they are, then my answer is to get out.<BR/>But then again, I believe there is no ONE answer to how to make a relationship work because each one is unique.berly02https://www.blogger.com/profile/04192281004184669801noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14910508.post-1127571053007169732005-09-24T10:10:00.000-04:002005-09-24T10:10:00.000-04:00this looks to have got people thinking in a deep a...this looks to have got people thinking in a deep and meaningful way<BR/>so with that in mind i'm going to shut upPxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16112931387478875067noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14910508.post-1127570217089180772005-09-24T09:56:00.000-04:002005-09-24T09:56:00.000-04:00I think about this all the time.I don't think ther...I think about this all the time.<BR/><BR/>I don't think there is a right in a committed relationship. Both people might see things on a different level so there for your sight on what is "right" in a committed relationship are much different.<BR/><BR/>This is how me and Chris work. We see things on a different level and we can never agree on what right or wrong. We fight about it a lot and sometimes we can work it out. But I will tell you one thing. After fighting about it for a while and it gets really old.<BR/>I don't know how me and Chris work but we do. We have a very odd relationship but it works for us. <BR/><BR/>I also think some people think about things to much and it make things worse in the relationship.Katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13491043321426803807noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14910508.post-1127560216912411192005-09-24T07:10:00.000-04:002005-09-24T07:10:00.000-04:00I think everyone has to come to a sort of compromi...I think everyone has to come to a sort of compromise with things in relationships and a lot of them aren't easy. I don't think 'J' and I always 100% agreed on everything and there were times of hurt feelings but while I'm all for compromising...I'm not for giving up my life totally. I still kept my same friends (male too=that was the problem) and I still went out but I ALWAYS invited him along. It was his choice not to come.Lindseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08044970270356817829noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14910508.post-1127541646829186362005-09-24T02:00:00.000-04:002005-09-24T02:00:00.000-04:00Many themes appear in your post. Unfortunately the...Many themes appear in your post. Unfortunately there is not a single correct answer to some of your Qs. For example, one answer in one situation is ‘love should not be so hard.’ The other answer is ‘you have to work on your relationship.’ As long as the work is manageable and is not a drain to you emotionally, stick. Then move on. Love should not be so hard. If they don’t notice your changes you made for them then you should confront them about that. Many people in a relationship also start wondering after a while if there is anything better out there. There is only one way to find out. But 50% of the time there isn’t anything better. So you know the odds. If they don’t want you to talk to someone you like then you should ask why. Communicate. See what their reason is. Are they insecure? Why? Have you given them a reason to be so? How can you put their mind at ease? No one can make another happy no matter how hard they try, if the other person is not happy foremost within themselves. You have to be happy by yourself before you can be happy with another. I know from past experience that people sometimes reach a fork in the road or even a dead-end. One way is to call it off. The other is to step back a bit and give each other some time and space. Rethink it. I prefer the second route. Funny thing about love is you don’t know its love until its lost. Its like the Heisenberg phenomenon on electrons – you cant determine the velocity and the mass at the same time. To find one you have to compromise the other.yrautcahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12727447528292136673noreply@blogger.com