tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14910508.post115697607215506527..comments2023-10-24T03:55:21.719-04:00Comments on ...unhinged...: 10 Years have come and gone so fast...Princess Pessimismhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18078119025887922397noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14910508.post-1157294491829376792006-09-03T10:41:00.000-04:002006-09-03T10:41:00.000-04:00I don't know about all that girlfriend stuff - I w...I don't know about all that girlfriend stuff - I wouldn't want to touch that with a 10 foot pole.<BR/><BR/>But, I do totally get the whole 10 years thing. Me and my high school sweetie broke up when we both went away to different colleges far away from each other. But, we did the whole "more than friends" thing every time we saw each other for the next year before we finally broke it off for good (also because he was sleeping with other people). Anyway, we were only 18-19 when we split and he used to say to me all the time "Why did we have to meet now? Why not 10 years from now when it would have made sense? We can't make this work forever right now. But, if I had met you at 28 it would have been forever." And, I got it. He used to say that sometime, 10 years from now, we would randomly bump into each other in a bar or somewhere and it would be like we had never been apart. He really wanted that to happen. But, obviously, I'm way past that now. Still, I sometimes wonder if he's wandering around our hometown hoping to bump into me. I'd like to think that he is anyway...<BR/><BR/>So, you see, I get it. You dated when you were kids. It couldn't have worked then. Now this guy is ready to be with you as an adult. Still, until he ditches the other chick I wouldn't have anything to do with him...SShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00158535399169400994noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14910508.post-1157160541974887152006-09-01T21:29:00.000-04:002006-09-01T21:29:00.000-04:00I don't know how you feel, no girl I have dated ha...I don't know how you feel, no girl I have dated has ever wanted me back! Consider yourself lucky. Wait till he breaks up with this chick before you ever consider taking him back.Big Benhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14422019301531343647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14910508.post-1157143442175617502006-09-01T16:44:00.000-04:002006-09-01T16:44:00.000-04:00Natalia - Thats good advice, and everyone seems to...Natalia - Thats good advice, and everyone seems to be saying the same thing. Like I said, just becuase he was the firght guy for me then, doesnt mean hes the right guy for me now. However, we were great then, and could be great again...who knows. But I am treading lightly...thanks for the advice.Princess Pessimismhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18078119025887922397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14910508.post-1157136200619295532006-09-01T14:43:00.000-04:002006-09-01T14:43:00.000-04:00Ah well...that changes things. But also...people ...Ah well...that changes things. But also...people do change and that might put you guys in different orbits. All I am saying is tread lightly until you know what you are dealing with.<BR/><BR/>-NNataliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11906727935025569432noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14910508.post-1157123608119206092006-09-01T11:13:00.000-04:002006-09-01T11:13:00.000-04:00Yrautca - Well, whatever it is, Its confusing the ...Yrautca - Well, whatever it is, Its confusing the shit out of me.<BR/><BR/>Phil - Aww...you are a blog piece of me too. When I speak to him, I will<BR/><BR/>Natalia - See thats the thing, the only reason we broke up is becuase I moved to Windsor for university. We didnt want to do long distance, not at 19 yrs old anyway. There were no bad reasons we broke up. We were fantastic together...thats what makes it so confusingPrincess Pessimismhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18078119025887922397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14910508.post-1157121775399919222006-09-01T10:42:00.000-04:002006-09-01T10:42:00.000-04:00Look who is back from vacay? :) Dude...this is s...Look who is back from vacay? :) Dude...this is some hardcore stuff. Starting things back up with exes is something so delicate. I mean surely there was once attraction and love, etc. and you can bet some of it must still be there. However, there were also surely reasons why you broke up. And those reasons might still apply. I don't know. Also, people change. So the things that affected you might not anymore. Ahhhh...see what I mean? Anyway, the girlfriend is a big old red flag. But there might be explanations. Either way, be careful and follow your heart.<BR/><BR/>-NNataliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11906727935025569432noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14910508.post-1157107883235289042006-09-01T06:51:00.000-04:002006-09-01T06:51:00.000-04:00Your instincts are right on this one. Until he's f...Your instincts are right on this one. Until he's free and clear of that gf stay away and let him know that in no uncertain terms. BTW, if it makes you feel any better, you are a blog piece of me. I just keep coming back here!Philhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09410795209306696264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14910508.post-1157068904233721432006-08-31T20:01:00.000-04:002006-08-31T20:01:00.000-04:00Don’t know about Canada but in US girlfriend means...Don’t know about Canada but in US girlfriend means girlfriend, not wife, not fiancé, not anything else. You have a girlfriend because you are not ready or sure that she is the one. So he should be able to get over this girlfriend crap if he is for real. Otherwise he is just hiding behind the girlfriend to extract some stringless, cordless, guiltless sex.yrautcahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12727447528292136673noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14910508.post-1157068291729740752006-08-31T19:51:00.000-04:002006-08-31T19:51:00.000-04:00Ash - Im confused because I dont know if I should ...Ash - Im confused because I dont know if I should hang out with him even. Hes got alterior motives...He's got a girlfriend, he shouldnt even be talking about the things he talks about. I dont know, I havent thought about it...i'm avoiding it...And watching big brother.<BR/><BR/>Trib - I wont..promise.Princess Pessimismhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18078119025887922397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14910508.post-1157066214852718032006-08-31T19:16:00.000-04:002006-08-31T19:16:00.000-04:00I'll vote for Rawbean. Don't get all desperate and...I'll vote for Rawbean. Don't get all desperate and do crazy things.Tribhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05290370244091885269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14910508.post-1157057631482158962006-08-31T16:53:00.000-04:002006-08-31T16:53:00.000-04:00I'm agreeing with Rawbean. If he did it to her, he...I'm agreeing with Rawbean. If he did it to her, he will most likely do it to you. As you know i'm either Black or White as you say. How can he even know if he wants to get back together when you haven't seen each other in years. I would think you would hang out, get to know one another and see where it goes from there. I think you should remember your new years resolution..No Drama!!Miss Ashhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14861518303557037012noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14910508.post-1157046792668509572006-08-31T13:53:00.000-04:002006-08-31T13:53:00.000-04:00Rawbean - i have asked myself that very question, ...Rawbean - i have asked myself that very question, and the answer I came up with was not a happy one. And the conclusion I came to was exactly what you did. He is really confused. And if he sorts it all out, then he can let me know.<BR/><BR/>Slop - You're absolutely right. And I dont want to be in the same place 10 years from now, that I am today.<BR/><BR/>Scott - YA...tell me about it.<BR/><BR/>Hernesto - I get it...and I totally agree with you. Good analogy. LOL!Princess Pessimismhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18078119025887922397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14910508.post-1157039418228236562006-08-31T11:50:00.000-04:002006-08-31T11:50:00.000-04:00Men!! Can't live with them, can't live without th...Men!! Can't live with them, can't live without them.<BR/><BR/>I went to Windsor from 1996-2000, just saying.<BR/><BR/>ScottScotthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16177305700247905809noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14910508.post-1156993455975595992006-08-30T23:04:00.000-04:002006-08-30T23:04:00.000-04:00I know exactly how you feel!! I dated this guy on ...I know exactly how you feel!! I dated this guy on and off for awhile and maybe about a year ago he (while living with his girlfriend) told me how great we were and how he thought we could have been married and shit like that. The problem was, he was ALL talk no ACTION. <BR/><BR/>I don't know WHY guys do this. But you have to ask yourself. If he's doing this to the girl he's with right now, would he do it to you if you got back together? <BR/><BR/>I know it's hard and he probably is a great guy, but PP you deserve WAY better than what he's offering. I could see if he came with no strings attached - that might be different. But he sounds really confused. He wants it all sounds like to me.rawbeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10478326303014582054noreply@blogger.com