Allow me to introduce you to....My Hair.
So it's my curse...that's right, and it's a pain in my ASS....so i decided to post it, so that you can all advise me on whether or not to cut it off! ALL off!!! Becuase I have been thinking about it for some time. HOWEVER, it is getting colder, and long hair is beneficial in the winter....my neck doesnt like the cold.
Anyway, that's my HNT picture....and after the week I had, that's all you're getting.
I've been slightly elusive for the past few days, becuase I have been doing some serious thinking about my situation...and I must say, THANK YOU guys for all of your suggestions, some of them REALLY helped....and actually helped me come to a conclusion.
Of the two, the other day, one called 25 times, IN ONE HOUR, and left 25 messages. The other, the next day called 10 times within a half hour, and left 10 messages. At THIS point, most people would have kicked BOTH nutters out of their lives for good. And to tell you the truth, this is what I did.
To the one who called 25 times in one hour, and left 25 messages.....I told them that they were CRAZY, and to stop, because, aside from bordering on harassment, they were mental. And I work with too many mental people, to have them in my life outside of a working environment.
The other, who called me 10 times inside a half hour, and left 10 messages.....They told me that they couldnt do "this" anymore, and decided to get rid of me......Which is their decision, and I accept that. However, this person still calls everyday, and I still dont know where I stand now with them. In their life, because they call still everyday, or out of their life, because thats what they said they wanted.....I wish people would make up their minds.....
Wouldnt it be nice if there wasnt any drama...although as one good friend of mine pointed out, she said I like this sort of drama, and attract these sorts of people into my life....and it may very well be possible....but as soon as she said that, I resolved to myself, that even if I cant get rid of drama forever, at least I could get rid of THIS drama.
This will be my last post on the subject. I've gotten too many phone messages about it that go something like this "Why are you talking about our personal lives on your blog???" LOL!!! I thought this was MY blog, and that I was allowed to post whatever I wanted....but since when am I not allowed to talk about my life? LOL!!!! Whatever right???
43 comments:
wuhoo!!!
go you!!
you are truly a legend
and i'm glad you've sorted things out though...
maybe you can get some sleep now :)
I LOVE your hair. But of course, if you want to cut it, then you should. If you take off enough you donate it, or sell it.
Hernesto...
Redhead?? No, last time I checked, my hair was light light brown...with loads of blonde....
See....and you said I had sideshow bob hair...THATS the reason I want to cut it off....
You know, Hernesto, you wanted to see photos so badly and now you are discouraging further photo posts. It doesn't matter to me, I've already seen the whole enchilada, and I mean all of it, more than I wanted to see. So you are only hurting yourself.
JENNY...you know, I thought you were referring to that day Ash was there too, but COMPLETELY forgot about that other time when she wasnt....LOL!!! I FORGOT ABOUT THAT! I had SUCH a good tan!
Eeee!
My opinion on the hair: I've always liked it best long (& the colour it is now light brown w blonde), but not so long that it goes straighter. The curl rocks.
My opinion on the drama: I agree that you do tend to attract more drama than I & always have, for as long as I've known you. (Which, my dear, is much longer than I'd like to admit!) That said, it doesn't mean you have to put up with it. Just because you like someone doesn't mean they should be in your life, or that you should be in theirs. I've learned that the hard way over the years.
Bleph...
Do you realize that when you said that how long we've known one another, I actually had to stop and think of what year, I was in that grade....and it was SO long ago...unless you're counting all the way back to ballet....then i've almost known you forever!
Hernesto
Dont you have anything better to do than read my blog, and post a million times???
You're going to scare everyone else away....
hernesto,
THE WORD LOL
pp,
dont sut it off!! its good to have in the winter time...
I love your hair!!! It's very romantic and flowy. Definetly must keep it.
I'm glad your life will hopefully be getting back to normal. You need some down time.
Oooh -- I would kill for your hair! But, I guess that's the "grass is always greener" thing that us gals with straight hair have. I did have a poodle perm once, but I don't think that counts...
Anyway, as for your whole crazy friend situation -- 25 calls in one month seem excessive to me -- let alone one hour! I am so sorry to hear that this drama just won't go away for you. But, I do think you are doing the right thing here. Good luck and best wishes!
I dont understand why you wait for one of the guys to choose you. That tells me you are either interested in both or interested in neither. In any case, I dont see that you really think highly of either. So why subject yourself to this bidding situation? Are these guys really young and immature. I dont think I'd call someone even 3 times in an hour even if I was madly deeply in love with them.
Nice hair. Pantene?
see i told you it looked like weird al hair
and before you start you know i'm kidding
although i'm getting a little jealous of the amount of time you're spending with hern, i might have to start pimping myself elsewhere
Heh. Our hair is about the same (including length and unruliness), except that mine is brown. -_-; I personally think hair is there for other people to run their fingers through and such, which is why this recently single badger keeps on thinking about cutting it - the only satisfaction I get out of it now is as a fairly reliable gauge of the political and social orientations of the people around me.
Direct answer? I think your hair looks wonderful. :D
And as for the 25 versus 10 & undecided - There are different kinds of people you want to stay the hell away from. Ultimately though, they're still not fun to be around.
just re-read your blog and something came to me... it's to do with someone telling you "Why are you talking about our personal lives on your blog???"
i was once told that "it's your blog, you shouldn't feel the need to censor yourself about anything on it" it's about how you feel and the things going on in your life, which is something i hold very dear and try to do myself
Linny - I agree, downtime needed, its why Im taking off for the weekend
S.Subs - I feel like i've done the right thing....Anyone calling excessive amounts of time is not sane
Yrautca - Its not that i'm waiting for one of them to choose me, I was just trying to figure out why I couldnt be friends with one, and have the other....guys are SO complicated....they were just jealous of the other...it was a bad situation all around.
PX - Fuck you and your wierd Al comments....LOL....Awwww Boy, dont be jealous of hernesto..you know what you've got compared to him....
Stealth Badger - The only thing about people running their fingers through my hair, is that somtimes, it's a little knotted....MY hair is REALLY thin, so it knots too easily.....blowing wind turns it into little tangles....i HATE that.
PX Again - It IS my blog, fuck everyone else....LOL I can post what I want to....
hell yeah...you post away :)
You said it PX...and same to you on YOUR blog!!!
Good luck sorting out your guy situation. They both sound nuts and not worth the trouble. Start over with some new ones. As for your hair, it's YOUR hair. Do with it what makes you happy. If you don't like or your neck is cold, it will grow back.
Oh now hold on a minute Clarissa. Do not come on my friend's blog and attack her for making SOUND judgements regarding your behavior.
Like your friend stated on PX's blog, it is hard when you only hear one side of the story, however...you generally tend to lean towards the side of your friends, in our case...that's PX. Truly, I'm not trying to be ugly to you, however if you had truly moved on you wouldn't be reading his blog ever. I do not for one minute believe you only read it b/c he owes you money. How do you expect to collect a debt by reading a blog? You read b/c you want to know what's going on in his life. Plain and simple and you know what...that's ok and it's normal. But don't read it and claim to be completely over him and make up BS excuses. Just be honest.
Sorry PP
DAMMIT...did Clarissa comment??? I MISSED it??? Did she remove it before I saw it? What did she say??? CRAP!
dammit i missed it too
probably wasn't worth much though
That Clarissa is a bit crazy I think...she's been lying to herself.
Yeah, she wrote a really LONG comment basically saying, how dare you make those comments about me on PX's blog, you don't know me, you don't really know him for that matter. You have no idea what our relationship was like or what we went through. I loved him very much, the only reason we broke up is because we were incompatible. He likes to spend a lot of time by himself, I like to spend a lot of time with my boyfriends, thus we were incompatible. I'm completely over him and just want to be friends. I've moved on with my life. (oh and here's the kicker guys) The ONLY reason I still read his blog is because he still owes me money that I had lent to him in the past.
Hmmm. I think that basically covers what she said. I'm sure there might be something I missed but that was the jist of it.
Yeah, try and delete that Clarissa.
Don't worry PP, I got your back. Yours too PX
Oh wait...I forgot. She also said that she was sure that having everyone argue on PX's blog made him feel special and important.
That was just rude.
rude...but probably true
I hate anonymous comments.
LINNY..you're awesome...LOOK at you, coming through like that!
You're the best...
CLARISSA, if you happen to come back and read these comments, LOL...you dont have to be afraid here girl.....LEAVE your comments...we LOVE a healthy debate.
linny and pp (and the anonymous poster)
things have now been sorted between me and clarissa and as much as the last week has been nasty and stuff, i wish her all the best for the future and i hope she can find what she's looking for, there was a lot of love in our relationship, it's just a shame things turned so sour
as for making me feel important, i don't like having my blog being used for biting and scathing and it doesn't make me feel important
People in glass houses shouldn't throw stones
Why do you hate anonymous comments Linny, is it because you can't rip people to shreds when you don't know who they are?
LOL....Anonymous....you've REALLY got some nerve. At least Linny HAS the guts to post under her name, and stand up for what she thinks.
I wouldnt consider it ripping people apart. She's a strong willed woman. Give her some credit....not like we can say the same for you....Anonymous....right. THATS guts! Good for you....it's easy to hide behind your computer and trash other people, but come on...at least have the balls attach your name
"It's easy to hide behind your computer and trash other people" Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha ... you said it girl!
Now I know Clarissa isn't reading here any more because some of the stuff that was said hurt her, REALLY hurt her. Why do you think she went so ballistic the way she did? For those still not following me, she was incredibly upset.
PP you say you love a debate in your post but if that's true why are you giving Anonymous so much ****?
Or is it that you don't want a "debate" which is a healthy exchange of ideas an opinions, you simply want soemone to rip to shreds, with the aid of your minions of course. Nice little feeding frenzy you have here.
Anonymous, "hiding behind the computer..." love that comment.
I've been ripped to shreds before on discussion boards on the internet and it got to me and upset me. Do you guys not realise the stuff you say actually hurts people's feelings? Clarissa deleted the stuff she said because she doesn't want people to be hurt by what she said. She said it in anger, but took it back straight away.
I think for the most part people say stuff on the internet they wouldn't have the guts to say to someone's face.
Having said that, some of you lot seem to get off on hurting other people and you don't seem to care. You kinda seem to enjoy it.
Okay...this is hilarious.
Labrat has never posted here, EVER. And is someone that possibly knows clarissa. All of a sudden, theres all these anonymous comments, and one from labrat? Whatever Anymous people dont come back and reread blogs....
you can deny it all you want, but Clarissa....seriously, grow up.
I think she is giving the Anonymous such a hard time, because they wont come out with who they are..
It just might be Clarissa...Who knows
I might be wrong!
or
I might be right!
Labrat,
If you knew PP personally, you'd know that she is exactly the same way on her blog that she is in person. She says *exactly* what is on her mind.
Hernesto...you want to fly to ontario to WHAT?
Wow, when I went to post a comment on your hair, I was not expecting the... drama. So, I will ignore it. Except to say that you're awesome and don't let the bastards get you down.
I think that if you're thinking seriously about cutting your hair, you probably should. Why miss out on what life has to offer even in the mundane?
Awww...Trib. You're the best! LOL
Yes, I got the impression that PP doesn't mind going round saying harsh things and hurting people in real life either. She sounds lovely the way you describe her Jen! What a friend you must be.
PP - yes I know Clarissa. Duh! How else would I know she was upset?
I don't think Anonymous is Clarissa, it's not her style to post like that.
Anyway I'm bored of this now. Can I say it's been fun? Err... probably not.
Back to the real world.
Yaay hair. Mine hates Florida. It hates the humidity of Florida because it makes the frizzy side of my hair (the neurotic bit) come out.
Your hair is lovely, so shut up! Hehe ...kidding on the shut up but serious on the lovely.
-N
Hernesto...WHOS wedding?
where are you princess?
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